Saturday, November 11, 2017

Disconnected

DISCONNECTED
By Thomas Kersting



“If you fear that your children will fade into irrelevancy and you strive to ensure they fit in with everyone else, YOU ARE TEACHING THEM TO BE ORDINARY. Teach uniqueness and let your children grow from that.” This is just one quote from a book that contains many such valuable quotes. 

I have for many years felt our society and more importantly our children were on a path of self-destruction due primarily to the use of phones, tablets, notebooks, computers, television and movies especially those that feature sex and violence. I also felt like maybe I believed this to be true because that is what others have said of me and/or because I was just getting older and therefore I was misreading what was actually happening.

Having no medical background, I had no hard evidence to support my beliefs at least until now. EVERY PARENT OR PERSON WHO MIGHT EVER BECOME A PARENT NEEDS TO READ THIS BOOK! WITHOUT EXCEPTION!

Why? Because the author is trained to observe what we have all observed and probably have also become ourselves to some degree; people distracted by electronic devices. I believe that the mind cannot do two things equally as well as it can do just one thing very well. Yet if you look around you see people of all ages trying to do two or more things at one time and one of those “things” usually involves using an electronic device(s).

The message of this magnificent book is summed up in that one quote above. It asks the question as to whether we are teaching our children to be leaders and stand out from the crowd or are we permitting them (as opposed to teaching) to just fit in and become ordinary. WOW!!! Think about that for a moment.

Do yourself and your family a tremendous favor and read the book. It’s short, easy to read but packs a tremendous wallop! You just might see yourself on the pages of this book and I know you will recognize a good number of your friends and family as well. But what will you do with the confirmation of the knowledge that should lead you to do what you may have been avoiding?

Who should read this book? EVERYONE – NO EXCEPTIONS; NO AGE RESTRICTIONS. Would I buy this book as a gift? ABSOLUTELY! Will I read it again? MOST DEFINITELY OR AT LEAST REVIEW CERTAIN SECTIONS.

Friday, October 6, 2017

The Magic of Believing



Over 30 years ago I created a Life Mission Statement for me.  "To help people to do what they do, to do it better!"  I would then use Joe Tye's Direction-Deflection-Question (DDQ) which is very simple.  I would ask myself this question or one similar:  "Is what I am about to say or do consistent with my Life's Mission Statement to help people to do what they do to do it better?"  If yes, I say or do it; if no, I don't.  Can't get any easier.  Works every time.

I could have saved all the work and concern by just handing them a copy of Claude M. Bristol's book, The Magic of Believing. If his book does not help you and everyone who reads it to do whatever it is you do or something that you may want to do to, to do it better, then nothing ever will; the book is that good!

I have used the principles discussed in the book without knowing them to be principles; at least at first.  I know they work because they have worked for me.  In particular when I first left the service I knew not what I was going to do with my life.  I responded to an advertisement (that turned out to be a little misleading) where an aircraft parts company was looking for an office manager.  I did not finish college (2 years), managed to get drafted (1965), spent 20 years in the Coast Guard (loved it) but was forced out because of a bad knee (1985).  I specialized in personnel management but had no degree.  In 1985 the economy sucked, unemployment was high.  I got the interview to meet with the Vice President of the aircraft parts company and the job sounded great.  After the interview I wrote her a thank you note for the interview but never thought I would get a call back; until......  For the next several days, I continually thought about that job and I knew I could do it and I actually envisioned myself sitting in the office doing the job.  I got the call back and I got the job.  More importantly, the VP showed me the stack of resumes from people applying for the job, most had college degrees, some has Masters Degrees and a couple had Doctors Degrees.  Why was I selected for the job?  Two reasons.  I believe it was because like in Bristol's book, I told myself and believed I was going to be great at the job and could see myself doing it.  Secondly, the VP told me that I was the ONLY one who sent her a thank you note.  Points taken on both counts!

Bristol's book and principles will work for you, of that I am certain BUT ONLY IF YOU LEARN TO BELIEVE IN WHAT YOU EXPECT TO HAPPEN.  

What I believe is that if you take the time to read the book, even though it was written in the late 1940's, it is more valid today with all that is going on and the competition to become successful being so competitive.  I could give you several more examples of The Magic of Believing in my own life but you would be better served by reading the book.

My test of a good book?  Would I read it again?  ABSOLUTELY!  Would I give it as a gift?  ABSOLUTELY!!!!!  I pray my 4 children, 9 grandchildren and 2 great grandchildren would all read it (when they are ready that is).  I think anyone over the age of 8 to 10 would benefit from this book.

BEST OF ALL?  I costs only $2.99 on as a Kindle read.  BEST $2.99 I HAVE EVER SPENT!

Thursday, September 21, 2017

Raven Rock by Garrett Graff

A VERY COMPELLING READ!

I AM IN AWE.  First in the research Garrett Graff did on this book, unbelievable.  Secondly, I grew up in the 50’s and 60’s and entered the U. S. Coast Guard in 1965 and stayed on active duty until 1985 and frankly, I was 99% unaware of any of the material covered in this book.  Raven Rock is a history book that takes the reader BEHIND THE HISTORY WE WERE TAUGHT AND TOLD and reads like a science fiction novel.  Graff writes about school children participating in Nuclear Attack Drills; I remember those.  We were told to take cover beneath our desks as if that would actually make any difference.

As I read the book, I had a recurring question in my thinking, “Okay smart A…., what would you do if YOU were the President of the United States and a foreign government launched a Nuclear Attack on the USA?”

One question and answer leads to another question and answer to another, etc.  The book is so compelling to read and the subject matter so complex to fully understand.  We have seen the devastation created by a hurricane upon our shores and that would pale in comparison to a Nuclear Attack on one or more of our cities.

The book is all about what our government will do if that should occur to maintain a government in spite of the damage and deaths of so many of our government officials.  More importantly it is about what our government has done until now and what it has done is very scary stuff – the stuff science fiction movies are made of.  It was difficult for me to keep track of the billions upon billions of dollars spent in creating evacuation sites, maintaining them and then upgrading them in addition to the constant upgrading of airplanes and communication/computer equipment.

There were so many revelations, at least to me.  For example, I was always taught that the Vice President would naturally assume the duties of the President in the case of his/her death.  But as you read about what has happened in our history you discover that no such ascendancy existed in the Constitution until the 25th Amendment which was not ratified and signed until February 10, 1967.  Until that time Presidents would sign a letter to the Vice President authorizing the ascendancy but the legality of that document has never been tested.


Raven Rock gives the reader an inside look at how our government operated or didn’t operate during times of crisis like the Cuban Missile Crisis and 9/11 and more.  Do I recommend this book?  ABSOUTELY.  Who should read it?  Anyone over the age of 14 who wants to better understand the Constitution and the inner workings of our government.  Would I buy it as a gift?  Absolutely!

Sunday, October 2, 2016

Pickle Pledge

The Pickle Pledge title would indicate that it is for “healthcare” because it reads, “Creating a More Positive Healthcare Culture – One Attitude at a time.  Tye and Dent in fact have identified a cultural problem that exists in most if not all businesses, not just the healthcare field.  As a REALTOR and a Designated REALTOR Broker for more than 33 years, I can attest that negative attitudes within the real estate industry are very prevalent.  As a retired member of the U. S. Coast Guard, I can attest that negative attitudes existed onboard Coast Guard units as well.  More importantly, instead of just complaining (writing about) the existence of negative attitude within the workplace, Tye and Dent provide you with not only the why such attitudes are extremely dangerous, financially costly, and dangerous but more importantly, how to fix such negative attitudes – “one attitude at a time” as suggested in the title of the book.  DON’T LET THE TITLE FOOL YOU.  This book applies to ALL businesses of ALL types.  I cannot think of a business that I have been affiliated with and more importantly businesses I frequent that can’t learn something very valuable about their own businesses that will ultimately make them better places at which to work and thusly far more profitable all at the same time.  But..this book not only applies to helping businesses become better places at which to work and become more profitable, it also applies to HOMES and FAMILIES.  Having a positive attitude begins with waking up and choosing to have a positive attitude.  Taking the Pickle Pledge at home is just as critical as taking it at work because your happiness in both places is critical to having a happy life.


Who should read this book?  That one is easy – EVERYONE!

Saturday, May 14, 2016

Winning The War With Yourself

I FOUND MYSELF ON EVERY PAGE OF THE BOOK!
Joe Tye has written a book complete with quotes and stories you may or may not have heard before that reinforces his message of becoming the best you can be by defeating your inner enemy YOWE or “your own worst enemy”; yourself!  Admit it, you have that voice that speaks to you and usually it is not a positive message in fact it is a message that promotes fear and failure.  Most people prefer to listen to YOWE than the voice that promotes happiness and success.  I read a lot of books but rarely read them in just one sitting; this is an exception.  The book holds your interest with those quotes and stories and describes just how you can become that person you want to become.  Therefore, if you want to become the best you can be, why would you not want to spend a little time reading something that will certainly help you to do that.  This book certainly passes my test of a good book – Did it hold my interest?  Without a doubt!  Would I read it again – yes.  Would I give it as a gift?  Definitely and will.